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“She’s just not that into you”!

Oh well reversed roles, thought that a girl can also be not that into a guy, I’m a girl and I know there are some girls who are just plain right not into a guy, doesn’t need a psychic to say so. There are so many things to show that
“She’s just not that into you”!

Here are just but a few ways to know if a girl is into you or not!! I know people are different, with different personalities but there are some traits that cut across the female species that is clearly similar. In that given such a situation we would act the same indirectly! Hope I’ve made some sense there.

Phone number

She will think over and over whether to give you her number or not. It’s a tough choice, then, “She’s just not that into you”!

If a girl is into you, you ask her for her number and she gives you immediately. She doesn’t think about it, it’ll maybe hit her later, ‘that was fast’…lol


If you call her and miss her a several times and she doesn’t call you back when she sees the missed calls then “She’s just not that into you”!

If she’s into you, chances for You getting a missed call are slim, because she’ll jump at the first ring, because she’s looking forward to your call. And if there’s a missed call, she’ll call back first thing…with no excuses like #iforgot


If you text her and she doesn’t respond accordingly, in that you’re in different levels of texts. Or rather if she doesn’t respond to your texts at all then “She’s just not that into you”!

If she’s into you, you’ll get a reply pronto!! no delays. and probably long ones, over explaining things.

One word answers

If you meet her and she is always responding to your questions with one word answers e.g. Yes, No !! “She’s just not that into you”!

When a girl into you, she’s literally a chatterbox, if the quiet boring ones. The share about anything and everything…both relevant and irrelevant.

Boyfriend Referral

If in your conversations she keeps referring to her current boyfriend and how she’s into him and she’s supposed to met him in a few then clearly, “She’s just not that into you”!

If a girl is into you, she’ll seldom mention another guy, let alone the boyfriend. Men are jealous and she knows that…hehe!

Strictly Official Talk

If your conversation is dwelling around work, work, work and no play .. she’s set her boundaries as to how far your conversation can reach, and as a result, “She’s just not that into you”!

If a girl is into you, she’ll talk about literally anything with you. She won’t limit herself. #FreeSpirited

Cancelling of dates

If a girl, has cancelled all the dates after your first date by giving lame excuses, then, “She’s just not that into you”!

If she’s into you, she’ll look for the smallest opportunity to meet you, even if its ‘hi’ ‘bye’ for 5 minutes #word!

Always busy

If she’s always too busy to talk to you then, “She’s just not that into you”!

A girl can make time for anyone she’s head over heals with..even if she’s madam president #TrustMe

Prefer to meet friends over you

If she cancels your date with her because her girls just scheduled a meeting at the same time then “She’s just not that into you”!

Because if she told her girls she’s meeting THE guy, they would reschedule and be excited for her. Unless it’s a life-death matter.

Not excited

If you always call her and she’s dull and sounds irritated when you call, then, “She’s just not that into you”.

If a girl is into you, she gets all excited, ecstatic and jumpy when you cal her or talk to her. You would automatically know she’s happy to talk to you or be with you.

Call you when need be

She calls you ONLY when there’s an emergency, then , “She’s just not that into you” i.e ‘will you drop me home? because you conveniently have a car’

If a girl is into you, she will even tel you of her plans in case you want in…

Last resort

When you’re the last resort for stuff, like if she’s call you after trying other channels and they fail and you’re most likely to be at her beck n call then, “She’s just not that into you”!

If she’s into you, you always be her first plan, always.

Rude responses

If she’s always rude to you and doesn’t really care what you say or do and does irritating things to keep you off, then, “She’s just not that into you”!

A girl whose into you, will be the sweetest to you, care about you and make sure that you’re treated right. Yes!

Hesitant to introduce you to friends and family

If a is hesitant to introduce you to her friends and family, then that’s unfortunate because, “She’s just not that into you”!

If a girl is into you, like head over heels, she wants you to meet everyone that matters to her. And that’s family and friends. She’s not like the dude who takes his time. She wants to literally announce, if possible to the whole world.

These are just but a few, although enough to give you a clear sign that a girl is either into you or not. It’s amazing how some guys still cling on, even after being thrown for all the signs in the world. And I tend to believe that if she’s not into you she shows it without hesitation.

I loved the Painting below, don’t know it’s by whom!! but Big Ups to them! :)

Signing off — *Kawi*

That Don’t Impress Me Much

Inspired by the song by “Shania Twain – That don’t Impress me much”. It got me thinking, how people get it all wrong about what impresses you. I can bet, every other human thinks that their strength is what impresses other people, not knowing that their weaknesses are what really don’t impress them… hehe a bit twisted but yah!

Clearly we share something in common, at least on my views on who impresses me and who doesn’t impress me that much.

So there is this kind of know-it-all’s, from my previous post, #WalkingWikipedia. Like everything they say is right, nothing you ask will go unanswered…quite some genius. That’s uber cool but there’s much more to it. There’s the looks and how you treat her, how you touch. It’s not all about how much knowledge, you can have all the brains for all she cares but without the rest, e’er that’s a no no!

I’ve known a few guys who thought they were pretty smart.But you’ve got being right, down to an art. You think you’re a genius-you drive me up the wall You’re a regular original, a know-it-all. So you’re a rocket scientist. That don’t impress me much. So you got the brain but have you got the touch. Don’t get me wrong, yeah I think you’re alright But that won’t keep me warm in the middle of the night.

Then there are the super hot guys, you know, quite attractive, well dressed, nice hair, manicured nails..okay am pushing it, but you get where am headed to. The full #EyeCandy. Oh well, fact that a guy is so hot, doesn’t really impress the girl..other factors should be included, same as above, how you hold her, treat her, talk to her.

Okay, so you’re Brad Pitt That don’t impress me much So you got the looks but have you got the touch Don’t get me wrong, yeah I think you’re alright But that won’t keep me warm in the middle of the night.

Last but not least, is the kind of man whose machinery is his #Baby , The Do not touch my car kind. And his machinery symbolizes his status and gives him the confidence he needs. He’s all about the model of his car, the phone he has, the only labels he can be caught with…bleh bleh bleh. So that you know, that’s barely the first step to impress a girl. You can have all that…she’ll be happy and proud of you and probably brag to her girls about it, but without the others how you love her and treat her, she’s a dead soul unhappy that is.

You’re one of those guys who likes to shine his machine You make me take off my shoes before you let me get in I can’t believe you kiss your car good night C’mon baby tell me-you must be jokin’, right! Okay, so you’ve got a car That don’t impress me much So you got the moves but have you got the touch Don’t get me wrong, yeah I think you’re alright But that won’t keep me warm in the middle of the night.

Anyhow trying to say that as much for women, You would see a woman looking for a super hot man, very rich man, a super intelligent man … those are very good qualities I would want in a man as well i mean being a woman. But if you can’t keep her warm on some cold night, or talk to her when there’s nothing to do, or be there for her when other people have disappeared oh well be sure #That Doesn’t Impress her Much!

Signing Off — *Kawi*

The Elusive!

This being my first blog … wow! Finally. It’s not everyday that you’ll find me getting the inspiration to jot down something. I guess i can call that laziness. So I decided it’s about time I put my amazing, very stupendous thoughts into writing instead of letting them be whisked away just like that.

This being the hottest topic : Relationships. I like it. I mean every other person has their subjective idea of an ideal relationship… or rather as some imagine, the “perfect relationship”… Oh,well in my very limited vocabulary and my short experience i would just stick to ideal instead of perfect…and Mr.Compatible instead of Mr. Right…because just like every other girl/lady/woman i used to dream and eat Mr.Right until i came to realize…eeerrrr sorry madam there is nothing like that.

So as a result I came to realize, what I was looking for was not Mr. Right but Mr.Compatible was the very essence of my search. Just that you know, man ain’t perfect (man in this case being both male and female)…i like this two quotes on perfection:

“No one is perfect, thats why pencils have erasers”..think about it.

“When you aim for perfection, you discover it’s a moving target” Geoffrey. F .Fisher

Funny enough today I read an article on the elusive Mr.Right. So the writer goes something like, he’s evidently not being elusive, (my words) O_o It’s just that you are putting him on a pedestal, you’re idealizing him and seeing that man as a mirage. Oh well, the solution here was first dream about that Mr. Right. Hey, I still stick to my Mr.Compatible so don’t get me wrong … Yes, dream about him,but dont leave it there because then you’re dream becomes useless –> Write down that which you’re dreaming about, like a list of all those things and dont miss out on anything, the nitty gritties too … I know you get what i mean. After this you shall be surprised at the kind of men you meet because at this stage you already know exactly what you want, so you will not be¬†experimenting¬†anymore and as they come streaming you know who to kick off … thanks to your dream list … hehe

Anywhoo … I did the same, so this ain’t just coming from nowhere, I wrote a list of what I want in a man … I know this may sound very stupid, but I did it and I do pray about it…lol, God doesn’t let you down, at least mine don’t hit the roof. Am not saying what I want is this perfect person, but thats what I have in my mind, it’s what i dreamt about.

Here goes my list,

  • Physical Side —> Averagely taller than me, dark n handsome, with just a bit of weight, physically fit,good dental formula,neat appearance, attractive.
  • Emotional Side —> Can communicate, understands me(like we on the same level of understanding),¬†humorous, interesting, loves me more than i love him (just kidding but Love should be reciprocated), not secretive, Intelligent, God-fearing, Financially stable,always there for me no matter what, outgoing and fun(in all aspects..cough*cough*).

Everyone has their weakness and strengths. What I usually say is that if you can handle the weakness of the other person then you’re set. This does not only apply to relationships but to friends and family too. It is how you handle the other persons weakness that keeps you close together because you can eventually even turn that weakness into a strength … SWOT analysis comes in handy haha!

Realization: Funny how your relationships have an effect on you’re happiness … unless your abnormal, you can’t deny this *food for thought*

Signing off ~~~ *Kawi*